Our first 7 years of personal growth and development are very important
Decades ago, I learned a bit about phsycology while studying for my teaching qualifications. But thankfully A I wasn't a blot on our lives back then.
Can you remember when you learn't this in school,
Can you remember which biology or physics class you were taught about this?
Your life is created
Every life journey begins with a foundation, and personal development is no different. The first seven years are pivotal in shaping who we all become, but strangely, not many recognise that, except real teachers (not some burley bricklayer wearing a slap of lippy, which, for wjat it's worth, I actually view a !
Think about this:
Having lived and worked in SE Asia for over 5 years, My house was in Thailand, and travelling around the whole country in my truck, meant I constantly saw the truth as to why "ladyboys" are so prevalent in Thailand.
The culture in Thailand certainly appears to operate around the patriarchal system; males are simply deemed to be 'higher ranked' to females:
1. Man sees young lady
2. Man decides to 'spend time' with this easily influenced young lady
3. Young Lady becomes pregnant.
4. Man disappears.
5. Young Lady is now a single mother, but her own sisters, their mother, their grandmother, and their female friends help to raise the newborn boy in a female dominated home.
7. Ladyboy arrives.
8. young lady is an old lady when she reaches 30 in Thai 'culture' so she's had at least 5 years (often more) as a fully grown 'woman', meaning at least she'll not have to worry about the next non-hardworking, irresponsible, non-home providing Man any more.
There is no "free schooling" in thailand, so education is not exactly a helpful influence on a child's development.
And all this while the little boy's "father" is very busy consuming many bottles of homemade "Lao khao" (Thai rice whiskey, AKA moonshine) so he can look for more young ladies, and the whole process repeats again, and again.
So my question, for you to consider, is simply this:
in western culture, do you honestly think that 'transexuals', who we're told can get pregnant, are just biologically born, or not?
Think.
Very briefly, here's how the human brain develops
We are not born with a brain. In the first 7 years of life, the brain is effectively a 'sponge'. Understanding brain development in these formative years is crucial, but can you remember learning this at school, or was dissecting a frog a bit more important to your biology Teacher?
I'm a bit diifferent. I beleve that any animal is a life, not a machine for people to abuse.
Recognising and appreciating the intricate processes that lay the groundwork for cognitive and emotional growth is far more important, as this early period in human life influences learning, behaviour, and how we interact with the world around us as we grow, without the need to chop frogs to death!
The human brain is not fully grown, and developed, until the age of 25. So yes you do have plenty of time to get it right.
You also have plenty of time to get it wrong, so undeveloped children, thinking they're adults, pushing their own children in pushchairs isn't exactly a great idea.
No more than the recent trend of Drag Queen's being introduced to children at primary school, by their transgender "teacher", to talk about probouns while 'pride' flags are decorating the classroom walls, in my honest opinion.
Helping your children to develop well
By understanding the significance of early development, parents and guardians are better armed with insights to support their children's growth, encouraging a strong foundation for a lifetime of learning and contribution.
So whether your son grows into the next remembered and celebrated genius or Philosopher, or thinks he's a girl who should like dresses and dolly's, really is your making, and your decision.
You reap what you sow.
I will repeat this: I am not a fully conversant Neurologist, nor a Phsycologist, but I can direct you to more information HERE.
So have a read, and most importantly, have a think.